Durham Pilgrimage of Pain and Hope

Durham’s story. Your story. God’s story.

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About the pilgrimage

The Durham Pilgrimage of Pain and Hope is an opportunity to discover how your spiritual journey is connected to the place you live – Durham, NC. Through the pilgrimage you will immerse yourself in the story of the city and the Biblical story as you reflect with others on what it means for how you live your life in Durham. Join us for this transformative experience connecting Durham’s story, your story and God’s story.

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The Durham Pilgrimage of Pain and Hope is a partnership between DurhamCares and the Duke Center for Reconciliation.

testimonials

“For the first time in my journey – my faith, pain and hope can join a river of movement for a purpose that is greater than my life…I am deeply grateful.”
“The pilgrimage helped remind me that my place is bigger than just my house. Durham is my home.”
“This will serve as a monument throughout my time in Durham…the best next step in my journey. There’s a lot I’ve been learning since I moved here…The pilgrimage grounded that as well as spurred it on to more depth and seriousness.”
“It confirmed for me that God is in the racial conversation and that He wants me to be a part of it. I think He is working to bring healing and reconciliation to people today.”
“I had never really thought about how God’s story, my story, and Durham’s story were all intertwined. Now I think about that a lot!”
“This was so incredible.”
“The Pilgrimage of Pain and Hope was an experience that helped ground me into the truth of what it means to live in Durham with eyes wide open. During the pilgrimage, we did not shy away from the pain that people willingly and lawfully inflicted on others at Stagville Plantation, in the name of shrewd business. Nor did we neglect the glimpses of hope and resilience we saw in the founders of Black Wall St. and those in the Hayti community. We talked of what it means to have hope in the midst of pain as we read about Pauli Murray- a woman who seemed to do just that. I’m grateful for the time spent learning and discussing with fellow pilgrims. Thank you DurhamCares!”
“Becoming acquainted with the older history of Durham via Stagville helps me remember that the life I am living here in Durham is part of a larger story. Visiting Stagville helped me put my Durham story into context within the larger Durham story.”
“I am so grateful for the time we spent with Virginia (Williams). What a gift it was to hear from her.”
“WOW. Meeting [Virginia Williams] was inspiring, exciting and empowering. I wish we had more time with her. Talking with her was a treasure – and the highlight of our time.”
“I found myself wrestling with my internal tension differently. There were so many things I learned that really bothered me about our shared history. I felt outraged and angry. Frustrated and confused. But rather than staying angry, I was able pray about how to channel my emotions. It was powerful.”
“The most valuable part was making connections with the wonderful people in our group.”
“This was AWESOME.”

Main Components

1. Weekend Immersion ­

A weekend where participants visit sites and hear from key leaders in Durham, learning its story. There is time for reflection and prompting to engage with challenging questions about history, identity, and community. Meals will be provided.

2. Pilgrim Journey Discussions

Participants will gather for two meetings before the weekend immersion to prepare for the immersion. It will be followed by three meetings for reflection. These will be lunch meetings unless the majority of the group would prefer a different time.

3. Pilgrimage Alumni Network

Pilgrimage is more than a one-time experience – it is a way of life. That’s why we help pilgrimage alumni stay connected through a communication network and gatherings throughout the year.

 

4. Pilgrim Life Events

The values that are learned through the Durham Pilgrimage of Pain and Hope continue to be cultivated through smaller events that help connect Durham’s story, your story and God’s story. See the announcements section and our events page for upcoming Pilgrim Life Events.

The cost of the Weekend Immersion and Pilgrim Journey Discussions is $100, which includes 11 total meals, speakers, and admission to each of the sites. Scholarships are available so that the cost will not be prohibitive. There are 20 spots available, and we will notify registrants if they are selected.

Announcements

Would you like to support the pilgrimage? Help us raise $15,000 to expand the pilgrimage program in 2018.

DurhamCares Executive Director Reynolds Chapman writes about pilgrimage in the Church Health Reader. Read reflections from two pilgrimage participants here.

DurhamCares board chair writes about pilgrimage in Faith and Leadership.

DurhamCares can organize a custom pilgrimage for your
church, organization, or any group

IF YOU’RE INTERESTED

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sample pilgrimage itinerary

(taken from october pilgrimage)

Friday
Afternoon/Evening

3:00-4:00pm
Meet at Stagville Plantation to prepare for the Pilgrimage Weekend

4:00-5:30 pm
John Blackfeather Jeffries on Native American history in Durham

5:30-7:00 pm
Stagville Historical Tour

7:00-8:30 pm
Dinner at Stagville with guided reflection

Saturday
Morning

8:45 am-12:00 pm
Meet at ReCity for guided walking pilgrimage of downtown Durham

  • Parrish Street
  • Durham Convention and Visitors Bureau
  • Durham History Hub
  • Duke Memorial United Methodist Church
  • Pauli Murray Mural
  • Former Woolworths/One City Center
  • NC Mutual Life Insurance Company
  • Carolina Theater Exhibit
Saturday
Afternoon

12:00-12:45 pm
Lunch at ReCity

12:45-1:45 pm
Personal Reflection time at ReCity and Central Park

1:45-3:00 pm
Virginia Williams, participant in the 1957 Royal Ice Cream Sit-In

3:00-5:30 pm
Break

Saturday
Evening

5:30-7:30 pm
Hayti Heritage Center with Skeepie Scarborough

Sunday

7:30 am
Worship at Union Baptist Church

9:30 am
Guided reflection at ReCity

12:00 pm
Lunch and presentation at Latino Community Credit Union

2:00-2:30 pm
Break

2:30-4:00 pm
Durham Then, Durham Now Panel at Nehemiah Christian Center

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